If you are wondering if you can get your girlfriend back after a breakup then you are probably looking for a little advice. First things first, be sure to apologize if you said or did anything during the breakup that was hurtful or spiteful. Just be sure that you keep your emotions in check because being sorry sometimes isn’t good enough. You have to show it as well.
There really is no guarantee that she will take you back but the odds can be in your favor if you do the right things. You have to really show her that you miss her and that you are sorry for anything you might have done. You need to show her that you are willing to change because the relationship means that much to you. However, be careful to watch how she reacts. If she turns away from you, she may not be ready to get back together and you could end up pushing her further away.
You could try sending her some flowers, but be sure to write a meaningful verse in the card that goes along with it. Be sure to be sincere and write about how you really feel. If there is something that you specifically did during the relationship to make things go bad, be sure to address it if possible. Promises to change are great, but actions speak louder than words. It may take some time to convince her that you are willing to change.
Oftentimes during a relationship, we become nonchalant and take our partners for granted. If this describes you, be sure to tell her you recognize this in yourself and want to change. Let her know how much you really care for her. Talk about a plan that ensures that you won’t fall back into a rut by communicating with her. Many men seem to hold everything in and are afraid to talk. Women need talk and they need to know that you care. Communicating is the only way to have a healthy relationship.
Just be aware that she may doubt you at first. Try not to get angry or frustrated with her. You must prove yourself through your actions and not just your words. Please make sure that you don’t become obsessive with her and that you give her her space. Send her a rose a week and ask her out on a date. Try to stay relaxed and casual. Let her remember all the reasons that she fell for you in the first place.
Things will not change overnight but if you put her feelings first, you will find that things will improve drastically and you will end up with a better relationship than you had previously. It can be difficult to not let the fear of losing her forever take over your life, but if you sincerely want her back and are willing to do what it takes, there is hope. This can be a great way for you to grow emotionally. Putting someone’s needs ahead of our own means that you are growing as a person and becoming less self-centered.
Being in a relationship means that you are considerate of another’s feelings and that you think about the other person at all times. Relationships are a series of compromises and if you aren’t willing to compromise, you may not be ready to be in a serious relationship.
When you are sincere (as long as you haven’t pushed things to the point of no return) the odds are in your favor. Be kind and considerate and make your girl your world.