Finding love is the goal of almost every human being on the planet. The problem is that once we find it, we become complacent. We should never stop trying to become better in our relationships.
We spend a good bit of time trying to find love and when we find it, we make sure we look good when we go out on dates to keep our partner attracted to us. Seems like when we find love, we start caring less and less about what we look like. You have to keep your partner interested in you. Don’t stop working out at the gym and don’t stop dressing up for your partner. Make sure you continue to pay attention to your partner’s desires. You can find some fun and exciting things that you can do together. This is a must for any relationship to work. Otherwise, you will both become bored with each other and before you know it, you are both on the prowl again.
You should not have your life revolving around your partner, either. Keep up your own life so that things stay fresh between the two of you. You will have so much more to talk about when you are alone with your love. This also keeps your partner feeling respect for your individuality. You can really turn off your partner by becoming a clinging vine.
You should always treat your partner with dignity and respect. You have heard the saying, we always hurt the ones we love. Don’t take your partner for granted. Be aware that he or she has feelings and you should treat those feelings with the respect that you would treat anyone else. If not, they will begin looking for love in someone elses arms
Life does get in the way and that is why you have to work on a relationship. Some others say that if you are really in love, you shouldn’t have to work on it. That is not true. We may have a job that saps our energy. After we have been with someone for a while, we just assume that they will understand and give you your space. Before you know it, too much time has gone by and your partner is left feeling neglected. No matter what else is happening, you must treat your partner with respect and make time for him or her. This is mostly what is meant when others tell you that a relationship takes work.
We all start out trying to find that special person to love and then once we find them, we stop trying. If you stop doing all those little things you did at the beginning of a relationship, you will find yourself alone and lonely.