Dating can feel like it’s just a game that people are playing. When a guy really wants to call a girl right away, but instead, waits so he doesn’t appear desperate and a girl doesn’t call, because she wants to appear hard to get. Yes, it can be a game, but it is important that we go through all these games, so we can decide if we are interested and attracted to this person.
The best part of dating is when you find someone that captivates and attracts you. You really have to be careful because you may not be seeing the other person clearly. Give yourself a little time to try to see past the giddiness of this beginning romance. There are some things to keep in mind when dating that can help you to keep your emotions under control and to help you see the other person a little more clearly.
- Don’t have sex too soon. If you do, this can really cloud your judgement and trick you into believing your are more in love than you are.
- Do not try to change who you are just to please someone and don’t put someone else’s needs above your own. Eventually, you have to be you. Better that your partner sees all these things now.
- Do not stop seeing your friends and doing the things that you enjoy. This is a problem that arises for most singles dating. They end up forgetting all about their friends, the relationship doesn’t work out and then they are calling up the friends that they dropped. This can really leave some hurt feelings. You can include your love interest in hanging out with your friends.
When dating, don’t give up. There is someone out there for everyone. You just need to keep looking and not give up your standards.